dont take this the wrong way but ,im a man and i've never had it happen to me, maybe cause I never have said anything to my G F about it. go to victoria secrets and buy a very skimpy teddie and put it in his stocking with a note that say's some thing like to ( his name ) from ( your name ) gift for this wrapper waiting to be wrapped and unwrapped again and again and again and ,, well i'm sure you get the idea. hey it's a gift that gives all year long