Signing up with eHarmony.com I felt to be very labor intensive with little to show for it. The pricing is very high with non quality matches. I am finding many of these sites disregard the intensive tests and questions they put you through to secure good matches. I would, if anything get the exact OPPOSITE of what I was searching for after using the importance factor. It all seemed to be disregarded.

Tons of players, if they get banned on one site they usually just makeup a new name and start all over. A good thing about eHarmony is they take your ip address into account so as to avoid these issues...