I am getting ready to turn 40 and starting to ask myself if I looked it yet not really wanting to know the answer. For some reason I had it in my head that if I went as blonde as I was when I was about 10 then I wouldn't look my age. WRONG!! I looked old and washed out. Needless to say so did my hair! It didn't feel like my hair anymore and I hated it. I went to a very high end salon and had my hair brought back to my natural ash blonde and while she was at it she gave me a deep conditioning. The conditioning she gave me only worked until I washed my hair again so I went on a hunt to find a good...