I wasn't so happy at first. Paying the fee was actually to my surprise only because I thought it was going to be MUCH more expensive. That was nice but what I didn't like (only at first) was that it took a while for them to find me the right one. After eight months of dating different guys who I liked very much and fit my criteria pretty well but still weren't for me, I got kind of impatient. Thanks to my best friend who I grew up with, I learned to have faith. She basically told me that sometimes a person needs to be mature and wait a little longer. Her exact words were "a little patience...