I signed up for an E-Harmony 3 month membership in December.  I have yet to proceed to the point of actually communicating with anyone.  I find the canned responses extremely impersonal and not conducive to furthering any kind of connection.  I believe their ads are totally misleading.  They entice you with the "free" personality test and enter you into the system whether you are a member or not.  Have been more than disappointed with the experience and would not recommend it to anyone!