2009 VIP
CyndiA
southern, NC

Biggest Loser - Is life really a game? I sure hope not.

3 star rating

concerned about reality TV, down with people trying to change, needing to slim down, slow and steady
Pros

    gets good TV ratings, may inspire some, some ideas for healthy living

Cons
    snarky game plays, in your face product plugs, silly long wow breaks, unreasonable expectations

APR
21
2009

Yes. I get it. You get some really overweight people together and put them on TV and call it The Biggest Loser. The winner is, of course, the person who makes the biggest lifestyle changes or plays the game the best. Toss the coin.

We have weight issues in this country. That is no secret. The Biggest Loser is not about those who are suffering from anorexia or bulimia and looked on more favorably even if those choices are not good either. It's about fat people. They are the big butt of jokes and not given any slack. Fat is not where it's at, and being overweight is considered a personal shortcoming.

In the United States, we have WIC programs to provide food for low income pregnant women and for mothers and children and include whole milk and cheddar cheese and so on. And, we hand out food stamps for the poor who can stretch the dollars by buying cheap but unhealthy food. That's just a fact. Healthy food costs more. But, people will snear at welfare families who buy high calorie foods to make it to the end of the month. I live in a low income area. I see it.

Then, we bash all the fat folks and consider it sinful to be less than ultra thin. If they bought the right foods and took the extra time to cook fresh and took time between double jobs to work out . . . well . . . they would nto be hanging over the edges of the chair.

To solve the problem, we have reality TV and the Biggest Loser. A few lucky fat folks get a paid vacation (do they not have jobs?) and take 16 weeks to wow us all on national TV with ginormous weight drops and new and improved lives.

Getting healthy is a good plan. It is the right thing to do to eat well and excercise. I doubt anyone will argue against that. But, it's a process and not a full-time job with extra help and no other life challenges as on Biggest Loser. If the only thing a body had to focus on was getting fit and thin, then we would all (or mostly) be looking hot.

When I watch Biggest Loser, I do feel somewhat inspired. They do have contestants with heart who give it their all and make huge changes. In some cases, I get attached to some of these reality TV folks and hope that they win or at least maintain and keep the good life going. I don't watch regular, but I catch it enough to feel some compassion.

On the other hand, I see these weigh ins where someone drops 3 pounds but falls below the yellow line. Although most doctors suggest only 2 pounds per week for safe and healthy weight loss, reality TV takes it to the max. Suddenly, dropping 3 pounds with hard work is not enough and reason to cry. What's up with that? Or, someone works darn hard but does not drop any weight one single week due to the speed of this program, and that's just total failure on reality TV.

Then there are weeks where you have two people who worked hard but one really put in more effort, but they are seen as a bigger game show threat. The person with more potential gets sent packing, because the other contestants can vote. They would be stupid to vote for another player who might give them a run for the big money. So, a true winner type may get sent packing for a random bad week, because a weaker player with less to lose would be easier to knock off in the end.

Then, the show producers like to play up the drama. Every weigh in has the teaser shots which may be from goodness knows when as far as taping and then edited. You see the shocked faces and then it's commercial time (rather commical sadly at this point). Whew. I really ought to get TiVo if I want to bother with this show. Every contestant and the trainers seems to get the freak out faces and then may or may not have unusual results on the scales.

They also try to play it up on the emotions. They push a son to confront his overweight father and express his anger. It goes right back to the parents, and that fault angle has been done to death. My parents are fat or this or that, so I am, and it's all their fault. I am angry. So, I will put that out there and validate my emotions. Yawn.

On some level I like the show with the goal of living healthier. But, I do have to question if these strange games they play (holding a rope for dear life up on an elevated platform) and this push to drop mega pounds in a short time is actually healthy. Maybe life is a competition. But, I think it can really be about each person doing what works, and I really don't see that on reality TV. The Biggest Loser has those high moments but also the back stabbing that makes it all a big joke with all of us being losers for participating and encouraging this sort of approach to being real.

Congratulations to everyone on the show who has dropped a lot of weight and to all those who do it on their own at home. But, use some common sense, and don't step on others to get to where you want to be. Some things really could and should be personal, and I'm not sure this fat to thin show is all that helpful overall.

 



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Jo wrote on Apr 27, 2009 at 11:20AM

No life isn't a game nor is it a dress rehearsal!

GigiandAdonai wrote on Apr 26, 2009 at 3:59PM

I've never watched this show but I have suffered from anorexia on and off again for 20+ years with 4 life threatening hospitalizations. Sometimes people look at us who are thin or skinny and think we have it made but many fail to realize just how difficult it is for someone struggling with the fear of food to gain weight. When hospitalized; my struggles were just as intense to gain weight as those who were morbidly obese trying to lose weight. It's all about lifestyle change and getting in touch with the underlying issues that produce these problems.

I work with children/adolescents who are suffering from abuse, eating disorders, terminal illnesses, etc. and I see it five days a week.

And like Patty said, where are they months after the show has ended and the limelight has been replaced with reality?

Great review and I like your approach on this whole reality show thing.

Katrena wrote on Apr 23, 2009 at 9:44PM

I think this show is better than shows that encourage the drastic surgeries or are pushing the diet products that are often very dangerous and may not involve exercise. Moderate exercise and healthy eating goes a long way, but it is tough to fit in.

I know what you mean about the healthier food costing more. I'm glad you mentioned the food programs and how others respond.

PattyTherre wrote on Apr 22, 2009 at 11:51PM

In response to CyndiA's comment from Apr 22, 2009 at 4:44PM:

I don't know if they ever have follow up shows months later to see how the contestants are doing but I would be very interested in seeing the stats. The show does show good workouts and eating but it's a shock to the system after years of not much activity and eating large meals. I am glad no one has been seriously injured or taken ill from the crash course they are on.

CyndiA wrote on Apr 22, 2009 at 4:44PM

In response to PattyTherre's comment from Apr 22, 2009 at 1:24AM:

One time this season they had to send a girl home. She had fractured her hip bone or something exercising. Now, she has to stay off that leg. That's taking "no pain - no gain" too far. I would think 350 and 400 lbs would put a lot of stress on bones, heart etc. The work outs seem extreme for people that large. I agree about the gradual process. It takes years to get that big. I could see months to turn it around instead of weeks. I hope they all stay safe and that the losers can stick with it and live a reasonable plan afterwards.

CyndiA wrote on Apr 22, 2009 at 4:38PM

In response to AnnaBanana's comment from Apr 22, 2009 at 7:01AM:

So true. I suppose they have to add the drama to get people to watch. I feel bad when someone is crying when they only lost THREE pounds in a week. That should be a good thing. Then, everyone is clapping about a drop of EIGHT or more lbs. Gee. That's not healthy for a week drop.

AnnaBanana wrote on Apr 22, 2009 at 7:01AM

I'm glad you wrote this review, Cyndi! I really like reality t.v. as a rule but there are some shows I had to stop watching and this is one of them. Reality t.v. sometimes smacks too much of the Romans watching the gladiators fight in the arena in the old days. Sometimes it is amusing and sometimes just plain cruel. The problem is that a lot of people tune in to watch and ratings are everything. Some things never change.

PattyTherre wrote on Apr 22, 2009 at 1:24AM

I often worry about how hard they push these people. I saw one man who passed out and was hospitalized on one show. Weight loss should be gradual so that your body can adjust and maintain the loss. I am inspired by these people and the hard work they put into getting fit but I really hope no one ends up with a heart attack or worse from being pushed so hard.