Its terrible that you cant find the time to take 5 minutes calling FP! I am a busy mom with 3 boys and could find the time...had you bit the bullet and called them you would be much happier then waiting for them to check the Millions of emails they do recieve. And as a previous customer service rep, a nasty email would be the last I would respond to, you get what you give lady. I called and within 5-10 minutes (without sitting on hold) we had the problem fixed. I had recieved mine used from a friend of the family, with no software and I use vista. They told me where to find the update, and how to reformat the player to accept songs. And **waaaah** you cant use itunes? You have the time for itunes (which you have to download cd's or purchase songs from them...hmm...same concept as the fp3 isnt it?), but not the time for your childs music player??? Shame on you....