In response to jlowe308's post from November 02 2009 12:13AM
jlowe308 said…
Some students do alot better than others but teachers also have to acknowledge that they are hired to do a job which doe snot require cash for A's and student substsitues.
(doe snot... he he... I'm not the only one who mis-types things)
I think we often turn to teachers, to politicians, to anyone else who may offer the slightest glimmer of hope, to do something that we won't take responsibility for ourselves.
From personal experience, a lady I know has a son who is doing poorly in high school, and she blames the teachers and would be ok with him getting undeserved good grades. She does a lot of his homework for him just to get it done (sure, it's in his writing, but she dictates the answers to him).
She was complaining about getting her pool ready for winter, and I suggested that her son be given that chore. (I don't have a pool, but isn't that something a teenager could do?) She reacted like I said the impossible and answered, "it's easier if I do it myself."
I'm just giving that example to show that we can't always blame the teachers when kids grow up in a dysfunctional environment. (And most would say he's not in a dysfunctional environment, but what would you call it? Getting a pool and other benefits without working or performing for it?) BTW, this is a normal teenager with no diagnosed learning disabilities. The boy next door.
If a teacher has a classroom full of students, how can they determine if a student really needs help or is just coasting? What if a student like the above is taking up all her time, when a student who would benefit from a little extra help gets short-changed? We wouldn't need child study teams if parents just stepped up and, well, parented.