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PattyTherre
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Don't be SAD all Winter! Start Fighting Back NOW!
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fun loving, health conscious, one who prefers not to take medication, too busy to be tired or sick, trying to avoid getting sick, A SAD sufferer

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2009

Don't Be SAD! My Top Recommendations for Fighting Seasonal Affective Disorder — 

I suffer from SAD. SAD is Seasonal Affective Disorder. This disorder often occurs in people who live in darker states with longer winters. I happen to live in New York where winters are long and incredibly dreary.

I never knew what was wrong with me in the winter. This strange, tired, BLAH feeling would hit around the middle or the end of September and get worse as the cold weather descended upon me. By November, I was sleeping all day, craving junk food and sweets, and feeling depressed. Christmas was a struggle. I was too tired to shop and wrap and enjoy the season. I rang in the new year fantasizing about sleeping all day the next day, after sleeping all day THAT day! I stopped exercising because I was just not into it and I gained weight. My work suffered because I couldn't focus and I took many naps. Life was dreary like the weather.

Then, May came along. I suddenly felt better. I started to look around and see everything I hadn't done all winter. I lost the winter weight, went back to exercising, and got my energy back. I caught up on my work and felt fine.

I thought I was bipolar. Seriously. But at last I was diagnosed with Seasonal Affective Disorder. I was offered antidepressants to take seasonally but I didn't want to go that route, at least not until every other avenue was pursued. I finally figured out how to fight this beast - without medication - after years of letting it beat me.

I am NOT a medical professional and my suggestions are just that. I am sharing with you what worked for me and what I researched extensively about. I am sharing with you what my doctor told me to do and what I learned from others who battle SAD. If you think you have this condition, first see your doctor. Rule out more serious things before trying to self diagnose.

If you have SAD or winter blahs (a less severe form of SAD), I would like to share with you my top things to do to live a happy, energetic life ALL year round, not just when the sun shines. I admit, my methods aren't foolproof and I still slow down every winter. But if I really am strict with my regiment, I can do anything I want without feeling like I am walking around in chest high wet cement.

My Top SAD Battlers:

Start to Fight EARLY
Don't wait until late October to put into place a strategy to to fight SAD. By then, it has its claws into you and you may not have the energy to do what needs doing. Start NOW. September is the time when you should be preparing for the onslaught.

Exercise
Blah. I know. You don't feel like it. Who does? But exercise is the first line of defense against SAD because it keeps your brain chemicals in check and keeps YOU in shape. Exercise gives you energy and it gives you an overall sense of well being. If you just do a simple walk workout with Leslie Sansone, one of my wintertime favorite instructors, you'll be doing yourself many favors. Try to get cardio in 3 - 4 times a week. Have fun. Dance, kick box, whatever you like to do. Force yourself if you have to but DO IT.

Sleep at Night
Sounds simple, huh? People with SAD often get all screwed up with their sleeping patterns because the sun doesn't stream in at 7 a.m. anymore. They tend to stay up later and wake up later. They tend to nap a LOT. That's me, Ms. Napper. In the winter, if I even so much as see a blanket, pillow, or my cat all balled up sleeping, I'm so ready for a nap. Try to go to bed at the same time at night and wake at the same time in the morning. I admit, I'm a night owl and I have issues with going to bed at 11 p.m. or even midnight. But I do try to awaken at a decent hour and not to allow myself to sleep until I feel like getting up because that could be 5 p.m. REALLY!

Consider a Dawn Simulator
A what? A dawn simulator lamp is one that either comes with an alarm clock or has a timer in it. You set it at night and it slowly turns on and brightens just as the sun does when it comes up. You will awake to a nice, bright room and feel like you're in a cabana in Hawaii rather than in your bedroom in Dreary Town, USA. A dawn simulator will help keep you on schedule too. Set it to brighten at the same time everyday. It's amazing how refreshing it is to wake up to light rather than a blaring, annoying alarm clock in a dark room. That's fodder for tossing the clock and staying under the covers. For hours. Dawn simulators are great for everyone in the winter or any time when natural sunlight doesn't stream through the windows (or if you don't have windows in the room). You'll wake up happier and ready to take on the day. I have one and it is VERY effective!

Eat Right, Eat Often
Yep, I said eat often. In the winter months, many SAD suffers experience cravings for carbs, sweets, and junk food. And they wind up lethargic, unhealthy, and 10-30 points heavier at the end of winter. I always used to gain 10-15 pounds from September to May and had no idea why. Well, looking back, it was obvious. I loved me some COOKIES! I didn't touch them at all in spring or summer but when the days were dark, I wanted cookies. Now, I know I have to eat well and eat often to stop the cravings. I don't eat a lot but I do try to eat small meals throughout the day. I look to high fiber and high protein snacks to fill me up and to keep my weight and sugar levels stable. I order Vitalicious Muffin Tops (100 calories, no fat, all natural, loads of fiber) to snack on. They satisfy my need for sweets in a healthy way.

Get OUT!
It's cold. It's often dreary. It's blahhhh. But you should bundle up and try to get outside as often as possible in the cooler months. The sun IS out there. You just have to sort of search for it. On those sunny days, suit up and GET OUT! I don't like winter sports because I'm cold all the time. Nothing keeps me warm, especially my feet. But I have some good boots and a ski jacket and, when I see the sun shining, I get outside even if it's just to walk up and down my street. I hate it. But I know the more real sunlight that I get, the better my state of mind. Plus fresh air is great for everyone. Remember sunscreen. Winter sunburns are sometimes worse than summer ones. You won't be getting a load of Vitamin D from the sun bundled up but you will be exposing your eyes to the sun and that is what keeps your spirits up. Your eyes funnel that light to your brain and your brain gets happy!

Take a Vitamin D Supplement Daily
My doctor discovered that I was so severely deficient in Vitamin D that he had never seen anyone with the level of deficiency I had. It scared him. Heck, it scared me! Vitamin D is vital to our bodies for so many reasons and every day a new reason pops up. Your bones need it, it wards of several kinds of cancer, and plays a huge role in your overall health. I take 4000 IU every day. That's an enormous amount for the masses but it's right on target for me. Many doctors underestimate Vitamin D's role. They suggest taking 400 IU daily. I would take 1000 IU at least. Naturally, I am not a doctor so please do speak to yours about this. If you don't get out in the sun, exposing your skin to it, you'll be hard pressed to get enough Vitamin D just in diet alone unless you eat fish by the pounds. Cover yourself. Take a supplement.

Replace the Bulbs in Your Lamps with Full Spectrum Lightbulbs
These bulbs aren't very expensive and they simply replace your usual bulbs. They give off clean, bright light that you desperately need in the darker months. They're not glaring nor are they therapeutic at the levels regular lamps take. They just very helpful in brightening up your world. Kids have been found to concentrate better when doing homework with a full spectrum light on rather than a regular one. That says something, doesn't it? This is a very inexpensive and simple thing to do that could help everyone in the house to feel better all winter. These bulbs sure don't hurt in the summer either. You can't even really tell the difference other than things are sharper and clearer because the light is white compared to yellow.

Invest in a Therapeutic Full Spectrum Light Box or Lamp
I remember when I got my first light box. It was huge and incredibly expensive. I was to sit in front of it for about 45 minutes in the morning and another 45 in early evening. You don't look straight at the light. You set it to the side of in front of you while you read or even work on the computer. The light filtrates through your eyes to your brain and hormones are released that lift your spirits and give you energy. I laughed when I was told that by my doctor. But I was desperate so I bought the light box.

Within a week, I felt the change. I was then working for World Championship Wrestling and had to travel constantly. I hauled that huge metal and glass light box from city to city, through airports and right on the planes with me in a protective case that I kept in the overhead compartment above me. No one at the airports ever questioned what it was. How times have changed, huh? The chances of me getting onto a plane with a metal and glass object are nil now. But at the time, it worked so well that I was afraid to go anywhere without it. I even used it in Florida! I could have walked outside but I dutifully sat in front of my light box in the morning and then headed out to the arenas and gyms and wherever I had to go to catch the wrestlers for interviews. I was able to go all day, stay for the shows at night, hang out after, and go to eat breakfast in the wee hours with the gang without feeling like I would die if I didn't take a nap. THAT, right there, is proof that light boxes work. At least for me.

Try to get a 10,000 LUX lamp if you can. You will only need to sit in front of it for about 20-30 minutes. If you get a smaller 5,000 LUX one, you'll have to sit there for an hour. I'm too restless to do that. I have a much more sophisticated light box now that works wonders. But if I don't use it for a few days, I start to sink and unravel. I have to dedicate myself to the light every year, every day from September to May. I already got the light box out this year. Last year I messed up and didn't use the light and BOY did I pay for it. This year, it's going to be used early and often!

Some people have SAD so severely that they literally can't function at all. If that is the case with you or someone you know, antidepressants may be the only answer. If you opt to take a medication, you should still adhere to good sleeping habits, good eating habits, exercise, and getting outside often. And full spectrum lighting is healthy for all. So the above suggestions work whether you take an antidepressant or not. I have been able to avoid taking medication for my SAD and hope that I can continue to do so. It takes vigilance, patience, and dedication to get through SAD without feeling cruddy but it CAN be done.

I have done it in the past and will do it this year. I fell off the wagon last year and all my bad habits crept back up. I was able to stop myself from gaining weight but naps were my friend and I barely looked out the door unless I had to let the dog out. I felt like a sickly old lady! I don't plan to let that happen again. Not even when I am one. (I am somewhat old and somewhat sickly but I'm not a sickly old lady just yet!)

I hope this helped you and, if you have any ideas or comments, please leave them for me. We CAN beat this! If you want more info, comment or private message me on my profile page. I have loads of resources that I use to get me through the rough, dark days.

Is it May yet? ;)

Patty

Last edited on Sep 01, 2009



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PattyTherre wrote on Sep 5, 2009 at 12:15AM

In response to MikeMaroon's comment from Sep 4, 2009 at 9:02PM:

Thank you! I really hope I help some people out there who have SAD but aren't so debilitated that they can't help themselves. You would be amazed at how many people literally can't function at all in the winter even on medication. I consider myself lucky that I can at least kind of function and I can do OK when I really work at it. It's tiresome though. I just wanna feel good!

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 5, 2009 at 12:13AM

In response to this2shallpass19's comment from Sep 4, 2009 at 8:11PM:

You are lucky. I dread the coming months but I WILL win!

MikeMaroon wrote on Sep 4, 2009 at 9:02PM

This is excellent and really putting your talents to good use helping others. If they had a community service badge here you should get it for this alone. I hope you are successful this winter. I remember living in central Michigan for 3 years in the late 70's and those winters are tough to endure even for those of us not afflicted with SAD. I can only imagine what you go through.

this2shallpass19 wrote on Sep 4, 2009 at 8:11PM

Luckily, I don't suffer from SAD, but I still found your review inspiring and hopeful for people that do. Very nice!

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 3, 2009 at 1:07PM

In response to bkovacs's comment from Sep 3, 2009 at 8:14AM:

You are so right about stuff owning us. The more we get, the more it has a hold on us. I really would love to move to a nicer climate even if it's just for the winter months. I think it could be doable because the marina isn't really used in those months. If our sons stayed behind (GASP) they could care for it then. My husband is 54 and retirement is a ways off though. He wants to build a home at the marina and live there in his later years which is fine with me but so cold on the lake. There IS sun off the ice and stuff though. Sigh. No answers just more questions.

bkovacs wrote on Sep 3, 2009 at 8:14AM

In response to PattyTherre's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 2:01PM:

I have a lot of stuff and it took me many years to understand that the more stuff I own, the more it owns me. The cars always demand some maintenance, the houses frequently need touch ups, some electronic gizmo usually has a quirk that demands attention. It's great to have things but I realized it's not so much fun to be a prisoner of your possessions. I know the marina means a lot to your husband and his feelings are important. I understand how something like that can be a wonderful lifestyle career. However, I started thinking about retirement and realized all the stuff I needed to support in that retirement... then understood that those things weren't really needed.

Well, I know all about New York State in winter -- I lived up there from age 6 to 40. You won't realize how dreary winter weather is there until you move away. Then you'll be shocked!

--Bob

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 3, 2009 at 3:29AM

In response to AnnaBanana's comment from Sep 3, 2009 at 3:00AM:

It is a real struggle to just do ANYTHING for me sometimes. I really have to push myself and, if I don't, I'm very content to lay on the couch, laptop and a cup of tea i hand and not move all day and night.

AnnaBanana wrote on Sep 3, 2009 at 3:00AM

In response to PattyTherre's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 11:34PM:

You know I've got to admit that -- even though doing laundry and walking around outside makes me feel better -- sometimes it's all I can do to just stand up and DO it. I just never thought there was an explanation for it before. Now I understand it better -- winters can get very rough. I think that's where the old "cabin fever" came from that the pioneers used to complain about.

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 11:34PM

In response to AnnaBanana's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 5:47PM:

Anna, you are amazing. You do things instinctively to make yourself feel better. It really helps to get that exercise even if it's just carrying laundry upstairs. Every little bit counts and helps and being social is vital too. I don't even want to see anyone or talk to anyone when SAD gets a hole of me. I just want to vegetate. I I feel so much better when I DO get out and talk to people though.

Thanks so much for your comment. I know the review was very long but I hope it helps some who have mild to moderate SAD. Those who have severe SAD need more specialized care than what I have outlined but the suggestions can't hurt them either. It's tough to get out of a rut when your brain hates winter!

Lots of people used to think I was just lazy when I couldn't do certain things but I think now at least my family gets it. They see how I work hard to use my light and do things to avoid letting SAD get me down. it's a tough opponent, I tell ya!

AnnaBanana wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 5:47PM

Thanks for one of the best reviews I have ever read. It wasn't until I read this that I realized what bad shape I have been getting into during the winters and dark seasons and now I wish I had been more sympathetic to other people who complained about this, especially older people who have real problems getting out.

I acknowledge your disclaimer that this isn't professional medical advice but there are a lot of good things here. I've already discovered a few ideas. For some reason, in the dark of winter, I feel better if I go downstairs and pop in a couple loads of laundry! We have a nice laundry room in the basement with a nice bright reading light and table and chairs to wait for our cycles to finish. Carrying laundry up and down more than two flights of stairs is good exercise which charges me up a little and sometimes when I'm there, other people come in and chat. Moreover, it is a change of scene which can sometimes make a difference.

I nearly always go for a walk somewhere even on the worst days but if it's just impossible, I'll just carry garbage or waste paper out to the dumpsters, then walk around the building to the front door to get a breath of fresh air.

I'm going to be interested to read the other comments that come in. This was a great review, sister!

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 4:57PM

In response to Fardreamer's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 3:22PM:

That would be heaven. I am so cold all the time. I want to bask in the sunshine for more than 3 weeks a year!

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 4:47PM

In response to pjeckert's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 4:25PM:

Thank YOU for your informative comment. I am sorry you have to suffer the way you do. I do know that sleep patterns are a problem. I am one who wants to sleep ALL THE TIME in the winter but usually during the day. I am up all night until morning and then want to sleep all day. I'm totally screwed up by SAD but obviously not as depressed as many people get. I probably should make a stronger point of telling people to see their doctors and to take medication if needed. Sometimes, nothing you try to do for yourself helps, not just with SAD but with anything. Then you need to seek the right medication and, as you said, therapy. Your comment will be here for all to read so that they understand that SAD is not just winter blahs but can be very serious and debilitating. I wish you well and hope you have found what works for you. The light box was my real savior. Without that light, I am a mess.

pjeckert wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 4:25PM

Hi Patty,
You write a good story, and true it may be. But, I am one of those who get it much more seriously than what you speak of.
I was a Minnesota girl who chose to leave the state and go south to Oklahoma. I still get it so badly.
One of the things that you mentioned was sleep. Part of the SAD is the inability to sleep or the complete opposite to sleep too much. Everyone is different. I take medication that helps me to be able to sleep. Otherwise I could go 2 to 3 days before I slept.
I am on antidepressants all year round, and like you said I start early, I get my medication increased to prepare for those long winter blues. I also use the vitamin D, just not as much. I highly recommend that it be taken with calcium. They tend to work with each other.
I also see a therapist. Medication and therapy should always go hand in hand. One without the other is like treating 1/2 a person.
There have been years in the past long ago, that I was suicidal. Please don't overlook the fact that SAD can get this bad. Please take it seriously. Seek medical and counseling advice. It just gives you the extra assurance that your SAD is being treated properly.
I just wanted people to be aware of the more serious side of SAD.
Thank you.

Fardreamer wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 3:22PM

In response to PattyTherre's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 1:55PM:

I totally understand the reasons for not being able to move South year-round; if it's not possible then it's not possible. Hopefully, though, when (as you say to Bob) Mr. Therre retires, you might be able to "fly south for the winter."

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 2:11PM

In response to mindyvol's comment from Sep 1, 2009 at 9:05AM:

None of the suggestions can hurt, especially if you live in an area that gets dark and dreary in winter. I hate it.

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 2:01PM

In response to bkovacs's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 8:31AM:

I have to be a drill sergeant if I want to feel decent in the winter so yeah, I am an Army of one trying to survive in the winter! I would leave NY but, as I told Alex, my husband inherited his parents' marina that has been in the family for 100 years. He loves that place and would never sell it. It is going to our sons and hopefully someday, their kids. But we could close it up (since we only use it in the winter for snowmobilers and ice fishermen) and go south for the summer. Then again his job and boss probably wouldn't appreciate that. Maybe when he retires, we can get the heck out of this state if only in the winter.

PattyTherre wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 1:55PM

In response to Fardreamer's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 12:13PM:

I would move in an instant but my husband has a marina that has been in the family for about 100 years. It's his pride and joy and he would never sell it or leave it so it looks like I am staying in this icy, dreary state for ... as long as I'm married at least. I wish I could go to Florida or somewhere in the winter though. I am dreadfully cold all the time. I am right now and it's a nice day! Yuck.

Fardreamer wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 12:13PM

In response to bkovacs's comment from Sep 2, 2009 at 8:31AM:

Re Bob's "Alex has a good point too" comment: I realize that moving from the familiar and even beloved "home turf" is not a decision to be made lightly, but living in the northern latitudes with SAD seems to me a sort of endurance test. Maybe Florida is not a good option considering it is ineptly run and hurricane prone, but (to misquote Horace Greeley), "Go South, young lady, go South!"

bkovacs wrote on Sep 2, 2009 at 8:31AM

You said, "But if I really am strict with my regiment, I can do anything I want..."

You have a regiment?? I didn't know you were in the Army!! :-)

I have used full-spectrum bulbs for many years for just this reason. Excellent essay on SAD with lots of useful tips.

Alex has a good point, too. I lived in upstate NY for many years and it is MUCH drearier there in the winter than almost anywhere else. Those damn clouds roll in off the lakes and you just never get any sun. Even Pennsylvania has brighter winters, once you get to the center of the state. It took a lot to get me to leave New York but I never regretted it.

--Bob

Fardreamer wrote on Sep 1, 2009 at 10:47AM

You guys should move to the South. Maybe not Florida, but somewhere where the winters are not so dreary!

mindyvol wrote on Sep 1, 2009 at 9:05AM

Excellent ideas! I don't suffer from SAD but I like your ideas and plan to use some of them myself. It's hard to go for a walk in the winter but my dog loves it and is my motivation for getting out some days.