David Hawkins - When Trying to Change Him Is Hurting You: Nine Secrets Every Woman Should Know Review

This book is wonderful. I had given me tips and has helped me with various aspects of the life I have been living.

I have been with a man who turned to drugs (crack) and thought for some reason I was his forever dream. I really thought I could change him. After struggling for so very long with desperation to help him I learned I could not change him. I could only watch him live his life to distruction. The sad part is when you try to change him YOU end up becoming more hurt by disappointment.

When you live with such pain you want to reach out and do anything with hopes your situation he will change reguardless of what the situation is. We all wish and want desperately to have our men be the same man he was when we were dating. Like it was from the start.

I am so glad I was able to read this book because it gave me some new thoughts on why its not healthy to even try to change a man. Its a hard thing to not want to do but once you read this you will find peace within and understand why its not a healthy thing to do.